Dear Richard and Janine,
Geshe-la, at your Dharma center, should perform ga-gön (Hayagriva ga-gön ) five times, today or tomorrow, according to how much time he has. When Geshe-la does ga-gön, he should throw the mustard seed that was blessed by the Hayagriva group at Sera Je Monastery (blessed by all those high lamas) onto your son’s body.
Also, Geshe-la should recite a few malas of Hayagriva mantra, and after each mala blow over the black incense, then burn it in front of him to make the spirit leave. That came out as very beneficial, according to my divinations. The black incense is called Gulnag.
Geshe-la should also recite the Sutra Stopping Pain. It is not only for the pain—it makes the spirits go away. This sutra is called in Tibetan: Yang pey dong khay du gug jug pai zung. It should be read four times in front of your son. If your son gets better, but then the symptoms come back again, ask Geshe-la to recite the sutra again.
Also, it would be good to perform the controlling fire puja. Please ask Geshe-la to perform the Hayagriva controlling fire puja for your son. Also, Geshe-la should teach your son to chant the Black Manjushri mantra.
Your son should wear the protection mantras that I am sending you:
Your son should wear these all the time. There is protection from spirit harm with numbers and other protection from spirits. There are two types of protection he can wear. One is square and one is not square, it is like three rectangles connected.
He should wear the protection all the time. He can wear it in the shower if it has a plastic cover on it. Then, the shower is not a problem. The worst thing is if one wears a buddha or a picture of His Holiness the Dalai Lama around the neck and then when you go to sleep it goes down under your arm or your body. For that reason, I don't like to give people buddhas to wear, because the person creates negative karma. Also, people often wear a buddha image on their chest. If you wear it for a short time, in public, to go shopping or something, for people to see and to plant the seed of enlightenment, then that is OK. But if you are wearing it when you lie down, then that is creating negative karma, and it also becomes dirty. If you are wearing it to go to the market or in public, it is OK.
If you lie down and you don't pay attention to the image, then you create negative karma. Also, if you are doing prostrations, you can try to push the blessed object back behind your neck. When I prostrate I try to push back the blessed pill around my neck behind my neck.
Your son can wear it with the thought to liberate others from oceans of suffering and its causes, delusion and karma, and to bring them to enlightenment, by planting the seed of enlightenment. With that kind of motivation, he can wear it in public, and then take it off when he lies down at home or whenever doing activities which are disrespectful to Buddha, including lying down or having the buddha under his body. If he doesn't pay attention this can happen.
Similarly, if you wear a ring with OM MANI PADME HUM on it, you shouldn’t use that hand when you go to the bathroom, as that can become disrespectful.
You can recite the following verse for him:
Extremely Pacifying All the Hatred
I prostrate to the three rare sublime ones,
I prostrate to the destroyer, qualified, gone beyond,
the one gone as it is,
the one who destroyed enemy,
perfectly completed,
completely purified completed one,
to the Buddha always looking one.
TADYATHA DIRI TISHTA TASKARA BADUSI* MACHALA MACHALA SVAHA
(NB: *higher soft voice - sounds like peydose.)
Recite this seven times. This is the exalted mantra, which is from Buddha’s teaching in the Kangyur, the hundreds of volumes translated from the Indian language Sanskrit, from the collection of texts called Zung-du, containing mantras (zung). The title is Extremely Pacifying All the Hatred. 1
If you make a request to Arya Manjushri, everybody will have loving kindness for you. The actual meaning of the mantra is “unforgettable wisdom engaging in virtue and abandoning non-virtue.”
If you can, please recite three malas a day of the mantra and the name of the Buddha (the beginning of the practice reciting the name of the Buddha—“I prostrate to the three rare sublime ones...”.)
For two weeks, recite three malas of the Mantra for Pacifying Anger, then you can recite less, but still more than one mala.
There is a protection for you both to wear. This mantra is for success. It is not only for the problems with your son but for your own activities. You can wear it all the time except at nighttime (see instructions above for how and when to wear the mantra). You can especially wear it when you go to speak to someone, requesting something, at any important time for success. Of course, just wearing the mantra without meditating doesn’t mean you will achieve extensive realizations and enlightenment—that doesn’t happen. So, from your side, you need to have good karma. Good karma for success is like a big fund. Merit and good karma are like the seed for the crops and this mantra is like the water and soil. The mantra helps the good karma, if it is there, to ripen quickly.
Notes
1 See also The Mantra Called Sublime One Extremely Pacifying All Hatred, in the Mantras Recitations section of Rinpoche's Online Advice Book. [Return to text].