Prayers and Practices for the Deceased
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Jangwa
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| Rinpoche gave the following explanation
of the practice of Jangwa. |
JANG.CHOG means "Purification Ceremony." It is
a skilful Vajrayana practice for purifying the negative karma
of those who have died, and transferring their consciousnesses
to a Pure Land. It can liberate beings from the lower realms,
and can benefit those who have died recently and are in the
intermediate state on their way to a lower rebirth, by changing
their rebirth to the human realm or a Pure Land. In that way,
those beings have a chance once again to meet the Dharma and
meet a fully qualified virtuous friend. At the same time,
the ashes or remains of the deceased can be blessed, so they
actually become holy objects, at which time they can then
be placed in holy objects like stupas and statues. This becomes
highly beneficial for the deceased and for those family or
friends left behind, because every time they make offerings
such as flowers or lights and pay respects to the deceased,
they create a great deal of merit.
There are a number of sources where Buddha explains or depicts
this as being appropriate to do. Also, in the very extensive
commentary by Desi Sangye Gyatso (who organized the building
of the Potala), he explains the extensive benefits of various
actions performed with holy objects. He also quotes sources
from the sutra.
This skilful practice that benefits the dead originated
with Guru Shakyamuni Buddha. One deva's son died and was reborn
in a lower realm. The devas perceived this, and requested
Shakyamuni Buddha to help him. The Buddha manifested in the
form of a deity named Kun Rig, and then all of the practices
of this deity, including the Jang Wa practice, were
given. The practice of this deity is to liberate sentient
beings from the lower realms. Later, the Jang Wa
or Purification practice was combined with the practices of
other deities such as Amitabha.
The names of the dead people should be written on a large
sheet of paper (use thin paper that can easily be burned),
and on the reverse side of the paper, write the first letter
of the name of each person (e.g."A" for Alice).
We do not offer food to the dead people (as in the Chinese
tradition), but we can make offerings of food, flowers, light,
etc. to the Three Jewels on behalf of the dead people, to
accumulate merit for them. Any food can later be distributed.
When Sangha Members Die
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| A nun who had been active in the FPMT
organization passed away after a battle with rapidly advancing
cancer. Rinpoche asked the rest of the Sangha to do the
following practices for her. |
These are some ways that the Sangha community can help when
an FPMT Sangha member is dying or has died. This is the most
critical journey for that person, especially one who is going
to the lower realms. It is important to receive support at
least for 49 days, and the individual Sangha member who is
dying will feel so happy, knowing that they are receiving
this support from the FPMT Sangha community. What a joy for
that Sangha member.
After the person has died, the Sangha can do pujas together
at the end of each week—according to an intermediate
state being’s week, which is seven days, counting seven
days from the day the person died. Assuming the person who
died is still in the intermediate state, the general length
of life of intermediate state beings is seven days. The lifespan
doesn’t have to be exactly seven days. It is possible
that they take birth in the intermediate state, and then immediately
take another rebirth right after. But if they cannot find
a rebirth within that seven-day period, they are reborn again
in the intermediate state. When a Sangha member dies, even
in Dharma centers with no Sangha, if the students at the center
want to sponsor or perform a puja, it is welcomed.
Especially where there are Sangha communities, you can recite
mantras up until the 49 days. In this nun’s case, Namgyalma
mantra was the most beneficial thing to recite, 21 times
if possible. If it is too difficult for each person to recite
the long mantra 21 times, then you can recite the long one
6 or 12 times, and then recite one mala or a few malas of
the short mantra. The mantra is available in a book I translated
which also contains the meditation of Namgyalma, with the
benefits, the story about Namgyalma, and how powerful the
Namgyalma practice is. It’s good for all the Sangha
to have that practice, especially where there are Sangha communities.
Maybe not all the benefits are mentioned there in the book,
but the basic story is there, and some benefits.
Many years ago, Lama Yeshe and I went to Mundgod to meet
our root guru His Holiness Song Rinpoche, and he talked to
us while he was doing his meditation. In the middle of the
interview, Rinpoche mentioned that he was reciting Namgyalma
mantra. He said people think that it is only for a long life,
but it isn’t only for that; it is also very powerful
purification. Rinpoche said he had received offerings from
all over the world for people who had died, and therefore
was reciting the Namgyalma mantra. Also, when I check what
is the most beneficial mantra to recite for somebody who has
died, normally it is the Namgyalma mantra.
If the Namgyalma mantra is written on a banner and put on
top of a house, and the shadow of the banner touches a being,
his or her negative karma is purified. If the mantra is on
the top of the mountain, the animals and insects on that mountain
have their negative karma purified, and so do people climbing
the mountain. If you have this mantra or text in your house,
the people living in the house are purified of their negative
karma. It’s the same if the mantra is in water: the
beings in the water are purified of their negative karma,
liberated from the lower realms, and achieve a good rebirth.
This mantra has incredible power and is a very powerful and
easy way to benefit others.
Anyway, please recite this mantra and dedicate it to her
and all sentient beings, especially the ones who are born
in the lower realms, who have intense suffering. Then, dedicate
the merits by reciting the King of Prayers, the Bodhisattva’s
Holy Deeds. You can also recite malas of OM MANI PADME HUM,
and whatever other prayers you normally recite. The mala of
OM MANI PADME HUM can be recited for anyone.
It is very good to do the Vajrasattva
tsog composed by Lama Yeshe. While reciting the mantra,
visualize beams of nectar emitting from Guru Vajrasattva,
purifying the person, and then all sentient beings, particularly
sentient beings in the lower realms. When offering the tsog,
the merit can be dedicated to that person and to others.
One can also practice Nyung Nyes within those 49 days, individually
or as a group, and dedicate the merit to that person.
The minimum is to recite Namgyalma mantra. That is extremely
beneficial. The other practice is Vajrasattva tsog, and to
make at least one stupa, which is very easy to do. I am not
talking about a 500-foot stupa or the size of one of the high
buildings in New York, Malaysia, or Taiwan. Regarding other
mantras, there is the Stainless Beam Deity’s mantra.
By reciting it 73 times, the person will be immediately liberated
from the lower realms. This is the basic advice.
This can also apply for lay students. The centers can perform
the practices of extensive light offerings, Namgyalma mantra,
Medicine Buddha meditation (at least the very short one),
and Vajrasattva tsog. On top of those, it is good to sponsor
whatever other practices you can.
These are some basic ideas about how to help a person who
has died. This also helps our life become meaningful, becomes
purification for us, and collects extensive merit.
| How to Benefit Those
Who Have Died |
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| A student from a Dharma center died,
willing a generous sum to the center. When people at the
center asked what practices to do, Rinpoche gave the following
advice, emphasizing that people must do something for
a person when he or she dies, as this is the most crucial
time for the person. Rinpoche added that these are general
instructions for what a Dharma center or individual students
can do whenever someone dies, to benefit them. |
• Medicine Buddha puja and Medicine
Buddha practice.
• Do the eight prayers that are normally done in monasteries
when someone passes away: King of Prayers (the Maitreya long
prayer with the mantra Jhampal Monlam); the dedication section
from the Guide
to the Bodhisattva Way of Life; the Prayer of the
Beginning, Middle and End; dedication prayers for happiness
(De mon); Je se Tub jog—Until Enlightenment;
the short Maitreya Prayer (called Maitreya's prediction);
Dechen Lhundrup—Effortlessly Achieving Bliss;
also Confession
to the 35 Buddhas. Students should recite whichever prayers
are available in English.
• Recite a certain number of the King of Prayers, for
example, for one full day or for a weekend.
• Offer Vajrasattva tsog.
• Make many thousands of light offerings. Make extensive
offerings of water bowls, flowers, or other offerings.
• Practice Nyung Naes. This could be done over one weekend.
• Do a weekend Vajrasattva retreat, Chenrezig retreat,
or Medicine Buddha retreat. Or you can do all of them.
Meditate on tong-len and dedicate it to the person who has
died. This can be for half a day, or for one session. While
doing the meditation, recite OM MANI PADME HUM.
• Recite the Diamond
Cutter Sutra.
• Recite and meditate on the Heart
Sutra.
• Meditate on emptiness for one session, or for one
day. Or you could do a weekend retreat on emptiness with all
the students, dedicating it to the person who died.
• Perform Dorje Khadro fire puja as a group with the
students, dedicating it to the person who died.
• Make stupa tsa-tsas. As you put the four
powerful mantras in the tsa-tsas, dedicate them to the person
who died and say his or her name. Doing this can create the
causes for a person who is going to be reborn in the lower
realms to have a good rebirth instead.
• Make Mitukpa tsa-tsas.
• Make thangkas or statues, and dedicate them to the
person’s good rebirth. (Of course, it doesn’t
have to be a 500-foot statue!)
• Publish Dharma books.
• If the person who died practiced tantra, then do self-initiation
of the person’s main deity, and offer tsog to the main
deity. Also, do a weekend retreat on the person’s main
deity.
• Make offerings on the person’s behalf. It is
very powerful to make offerings to the Sangha on the person’s
behalf. Also, offer to lay students who have the same guru
as the person who died. This collects a vast amount of merit,
which you can then dedicate to the person who died. Do not
offer food to the dead person. Instead, make offerings of
food, flowers, lights, and so on to the Three Jewels on behalf
of the dead person, to accumulate merit for him or her. Then
the food can be distributed afterward.
• Also, make offerings to the person’s gurus,
or you can offer to your own guru on that person’s behalf.
• Offer charity or offer to the Dharma center on the
person’s behalf, as the center is a place for people
to meditate in, to learn Dharma, where people come to purify
their minds, collect merit, and meditate on the path (lamrim).
• Offer charity on the person’s behalf to sick
people, homeless people, to solve other people’s difficulties,
to charities, and to poor people.
• Offer charity on the person’s behalf to animals.
These are all things that the Dharma center can organize
as group events, or people can do individually.
| Praying for the Deceased |
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| Rinpoche gave the following talk to
sangha members in a restaurant in Singapore on the benefits
of performing pujas for those who have died. |
It is very important for the sangha to participate in praying
for someone who has died. Students can sponsor a puja for
the person at a Dharma Center. There are many benefits for
the deceased, the family of the deceased, and the sangha’s
mind. It reminds us of impermanence. We can also recite prayers
either at the person’s funeral or in the hospital; it
helps people’s minds. When one student of a geshe passed
away, the geshe did elaborate prayers for the student and
took care of his family very well. It made the family feel
extremely happy. When time allows, the best would be to perform
the Medicine Buddha puja or recite the King of Prayers. If
there is not enough time to do a Medicine Buddha puja you
can perform Medicine Buddha practice with the visualization.
| Disposing of a Deceased
Person’s Wealth |
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| Rinpoche gave the following advice on
how to dispose of a person’s wealth after death. |
Traditionally, as soon as the person’s breath has stopped,
the person’s wealth is offered to his or her gurus.
Another thing that is traditionally done when somebody dies
is to make light offerings. According to how wealthy the person
is, you can offer any amount of lights: 100, 1,000, 10,000,
100,000, or more. Every day, up until 49 days after the person’s
passing away, you can make light offerings. Or, you can make
light offerings at the end of each week, using the practice
for offering lights that I have composed.
If you are just doing the light offering practice, you can
recite the prayers in that practice. However, if you are making
extensive light offerings, you can use Lama Tsongkhapa Guru
Yoga or the Guru Puja, and make the offering during
the offering section of the seven-limb prayer, or at the beginning
when you make the preliminary offerings. If you are making
light offerings with other sadhanas, offer them when you come
to the practice of the seven-limb prayer, in the part for
offerings. If you are performing Chenrezig practice, which
is the same as the Nyung Ne practice, there is a section for
extensive offerings, and you can practice the meditation at
that time.
One should perform the blessing when one is actually lighting
the offerings. That is part of the normal practice. Before
you do the extensive offering meditation, whenever you do
group practice or when you perform a sadhana, it is good to
recite the mantra of clouds of offerings. Even if there is
only one light offering, numberless buddhas receive numberless
light offerings. The Guru Puja merit field receives
numberless light offerings. That mantra has the power not
only to bless, but also to increase the offerings. It is very
important to perform light offerings when somebody has passed
away.
This is the minimum that can be done. But if somebody has
more money, or people want to sponsor a puja for the person
who died, there is the Namgyalma thousand-offering puja, and
the middle and long Medicine Buddha pujas, which are extremely
good to do, with many offerings. These pujas can be done at
the end of each week, and especially at the end of the 49
days. They can be done in a Sangha community, and if there
is enough money, the pujas can be sponsored and be performed
in monasteries where there are many monks or nuns. This way,
by making offerings to more Sangha, it collects more merit.
You can request monasteries to perform these pujas. There
is so much merit in making offerings to Sangha, as long as
they are living according to their vows, especially the fully
ordained. When money is offered to me after someone has died,
I use it for pujas, to build stupas and prayer wheels, etc.
If you offer to the monastery by thinking that you are offering
to the pores of your own guru, remembering your guru, you
collect extensive merit. Any amount offered to all the ten
directions’ Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, and to the ten
directions’ statues, stupas, and scriptures collects
extensive merit.
Whatever money or property a person has, it is extremely
good to use it for public service, in order to build monasteries,
temples, centers, holy objects, and to support Western Sangha.
That can make it most beneficial. Of course, the same applies
to offering to His Holiness the Dalai Lama. If the offering
is given to build holy objects, temples, or monasteries, whatever
amount is given—$1, $5, $10—generates so much
merit.
There is a story that just by offering a drink, one is born
as a king in the human world. I think there was a very poor
couple who offered medicinal drinks to some Sangha and they
were reborn as kings in the place called Gashika, with an
incredible amount of power. For millions of eons they were
never poor through having offered food and drink. And that’s
just concerning temporary happiness, without even mentioning
ultimate happiness. One will receive so much happiness in
all those lifetimes.
It is the same when building or buying a Dharma center,
a hall for the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, and for all sentient
beings—a place for sentient beings to meet the Dharma,
the unmistaken path to happiness. Through the unmistaken method,
they can achieve future happiness, and more important, everlasting
happiness, liberation from samsara, and most importantly,
full enlightenment. This way, there is the deepest benefit
by eliminating the root of suffering, which is deeply rooted
in their minds. Nothing else can do that except Dharma,. Without
Dharma, they will suffer without end. Even if they try to
achieve happiness by other means, the happiness they achieve
will be only temporary, and is actually in the nature of suffering.
Creating the facilities for sentient beings to meet and practice
Dharma brings them to the cessation of suffering and to enlightenment.
| What to Do with a Deceased
Person’s Ashes |
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| Rinpoche gave the following instructions
on what to do with a deceased person’s ashes, to
be of maximum benefit for them. |
For your mother, it would be good to recite the mantra OM
MANI PADME HUM or the Medicine Buddha mantra many times, then
blow on her body to purify her, and to protect her from the
lower realms. You can also practice Medicine Buddha meditation
for your mother’s liberation.
After the cremation, the ashes need to be blessed through
the puja Jangwa. Once Jangwa has been performed with some
of the hair or bone of the person, for purification of negative
karma and for the person’s liberation, then the ashes,
hair, or bone can be put inside a stupa. Jangwa is a very
powerful tantric puja performed to transfer the person’s
consciousness into higher realms, such as pure lands. Through
Jangwa, the person’s ashes, hair, bones, or other physical
remains are blessed and actually become holy objects, and
so can be placed in holy objects like stupas and statues.
This becomes highly beneficial for the person who died, and
for the family or friends left behind, because every time
they pay respects to the deceased by making offerings such
as flowers or lights to the stupa or statue, they create a
lot of merit. Doing Jangwa for your mother would also create
extensive merit for those she left behind that are doing the
puja or rejoicing in having it done.
There are many good geshes who have a good understanding
of Dharma, the entire path to enlightenment. The ashes can
be divided for different geshes to bless, or just one geshe
can do it; it doesn’t matter. But the more times the
ashes are blessed, the more benefit there is for the person
who died.
After Jangwa has been done, if possible, a lot of the ashes
should be put in the ocean, because when they are blessed,
they become like relics. When the ashes are put in the ocean,
all the animals are purified of their negative karma for the
next rebirth and future rebirths. This is mentioned in the
Jangwa text, which also mentions throwing the ashes into the
wind on top of a high mountain, so that all the insects and
other sentient beings who are touched by the ashes will be
liberated. I think putting them in the ocean would be better,
because there are so many more sentient beings there. You
can also sprinkle them on the ground where there are many
insects.
A small amount of the ashes can be placed in the base of
a stupa. The person who has died will receive all the merit
from having the stupa dedicated to them. At Land of Medicine
Buddha retreat center in California, there is a temple to
house stupas with people’s ashes in them.
Some people say that you can’t put the ashes of ordinary
beings inside a stupa, and that this is very heavy negative
karma, but this is not a well-analyzed thought. If the ashes
are purified and blessed by a good meditator, with good concentration,
the ashes can be put inside a stupa, and circumambulated.
Kirti Tsenshab Rinpoche says this is OK, and it is also mentioned
in the text itself.
In case people have superstitious thoughts about not wanting
to circumambulate a stupa with ashes in it, then put the ashes
in the base of the stupa and not the stupa itself. It will
make it easier for people with those thoughts to circumambulate
and worship the stupa.
I suggest that a tsa-tsa stupa can be made at the end of
each week for the person. One, two, or three stupas can be
made, but at least one. Then the stupas can be filled with
the four different mantras that I have copied from the Kangyur
or Tengyur. They have so much benefit, and incredible
power. It makes the stupa or statue so powerful for people
who are worshipping or circumambulating it. There is one mantra
called the Stainless Beam Deity’s Mantra. If you circumambulate
a stupa or tsa-tsa with one of these mantras in it one time,
it has the power to purify the heavy negative karma that causes
one to be reborn in all the eight hot hells. This is just
from one mantra, and it is possible to fit many of these mantras
inside one stupa. The more mantras there are in the statue
or stupa, the more powerful it becomes.
I will also be saying prayers for your mother.
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