Be Your Own Therapist
by Lama Thubten Yeshe
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Lama Thubten Yeshe gave this teaching at Assembly
Hall,
Melbourne, Australia in April 1975.
Edited by Nicholas Ribush.
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The
way we live and think everything is dedicated to material
pleasure. We consider sense objects to be of utmost importance
and materialistically devote ourselves to whatever makes us
happy, famous and popular. Even though all this comes from
our mind, we are so totally preoccupied by the external objects
themselves that we never look within, we never question what
makes them so interesting. However, this mind is an inseparable
part of us; as long as we exist our mind is there within us.
Thus we are always up and down. It is not our body that goes
up and down, it is our mindthe mind whose way of functioning
we do not understand. Therefore, sometimes you have to examine
yourself; not just your body but your mind, which is the thing
that is telling you what to do. You have to know your own
psychology, or, in religious terminology, perhaps, your inner
nature. But no matter what you call it, you have to know your
own mind.
Don't think that
examining and knowing the nature of your mind is only an Eastern
trip. That's a wrong conception; it's not an Eastern trip,
it's your trip. How can you separate your body, or the picture
you have of your self, from your mind? You can't say, "I have
the material power to separate my body from my mind." That's
impossible. You think you are a free person in the world,
enjoying everything. That's what you think, but you are not
free. I'm not saying that you are under the control of someone
else; it's your own attachment, your own uncontrolled mind
that you are oppressed by. If you can discover how it oppresses
you, the uncontrolled mind will disappear automatically. Thus
knowing your own mind is the solution for your mental problems.
One day the world
is so beautiful; the next day it is so bad. How can you say
that! Scientifically it's impossible for the world to change
radically like that. It's simply your mind that makes this
happen. Don't think that this is religious dogma; our going
up and down is not religious dogma. I'm not talking about
religion;
I'm talking about the way you lead your life, which is what
sends you up down. The people and the environment don't change
radically; the changes are in your own mind. Surely you can
understand thatit's so simple.
Similarly, one person
thinks that the world is beautiful and people are wonderful
and kind, but another thinks that everything and everyone
are horrible. Who is right? How do you explain that scientifically?
It's just their individual mind's projection of the sense
world. Hence you feel, "Today is like this, tomorrow is like
that; this man is like this; that woman is like that." But
where is the absolutely fixed, forever-beautiful woman? Who
is the absolutely forever-handsome man? They are non-existent;
they are simply creations of your mind.
Also, you should
not expect material objects to satisfy you and make your life
perfect; that too is impossible. How can you be satisfied
by even vast amounts of material objects? How can you be satisfied
by sleeping with hundreds of different people? It's impossible.
Satisfaction comes from the mind. Your dissatisfied mind wanting
to keep changing from one person to another, from one trip
to another, can never satisfy you. This is just your mind.
So you see, if you
don't know your own psychology, you might ignore what's going
on in your mind until it breaks down and you go completely
crazy.
People go mad through lack of inner wisdom, the ability to
examine their own mind. They cannot explain themselves to
themselves; they don't know how to talk to themselves. Thus
they are constantly preoccupied with all these external objects
while their mind within is running down until it finally
cracks.
They are ignorant of their internal world; their minds are
totally unified with ignorance instead of being awake and
engaged in self-analysis. It is so necessary to examine your
own mental attitudes; it is essential that you become your
own therapist.
You people are intelligent:
you know that material objects alone cannot bring you satisfaction.
However, you don't need to embark on some emotional, religious
trip to examine your own mind. Some people think they do;
they think that this kind of self-analysis is something spiritual
or religious. To do this it's not necessary to classify yourself
as a follower of this or that philosophy or religion. But
if you want to be happy you do have to check the way you lead
your life. For this you don't need to put yourself into some
religious category; your own mind is your religion.
When you check your
mind, you should not rationalize or push. Relax. Do not be
upset when problems come. Just be conscious of them and their
origin, knowing their root. Introduce the problem to yourself:
Here is this kind of problem. How has it become a problem?
What kind of mind has made it a problem? What kind of mind
feels that it's a problem? This is so simple, and when you
check thoroughly, the problem automatically disappears. That
is simple, isn't it? For that to happen, you don't have to
believe in something. Don't believe anything! All the same,
you can't say, I don't believe I have a mind. You can't reject
your mind. You can say, I reject Eastern thingsI agree.
But can you reject yourself? Can you reject your head, your
nose? You cannot reject your mind. Therefore, treat yourself
wisely and try to discover the true source of satisfaction.
When you were a child
you loved and craved chocolate and cake, and you thought,
“When I'm old like my parents, I'll have all the chocolate
and cake I want, and then I'll be happy.” You made that kind
of mental decision. Now you have so much chocolate and cake,
but you're bored. So you decide that since this doesn't make
you happy you'll get a car, a house, television, a husband
or wifethen, you'll be happy. So now you have everything,
but there are more problems. The car is a problem; the house
is a problem; the husband or wife is a problem; the children
are a problem. You realize, Oh, this is not satisfaction.
Then, what is satisfaction?
Go through all this mentally and check; it's very important.
Examine your life from childhood to the presentmeditate.
This is meditation, analytical meditation. At that time my
mind was like that; now my mind is like this. It has changed
this way, that way. You see, your mind has changed so many
times but still you have not reached any conclusion as to
what really makes you happy. My interpretation of this is
that you are lost. I don't care that you know your way around
the city, that you know how to get home, that you know where
to buy chocolate; as far as I'm concerned, you're lost; you
can’t find your goal. Check honestly, you'll find that this
is so.
Therefore, Lord Buddha
is saying that you only have to know what you are, how you
exist; that's all. You don't have to anything. Just understand
your mind: how it works; how attachment and desire arise;
how ignorance arises; where the emotions come from. It is
sufficient to know the nature of all that; just that gives
so much happiness and peace. Your life changes completely;
everything gets turned upside down; what you interpreted as
horrible becomes beautiful. It's truly possible.
I'm sure that if
I told you that all you were living for was chocolate and
ice cream you'd think I was crazy. No, no, no, your arrogant
mind would say. But look deeper into your life’s purpose.
What are you here for? Gaining a good reputation? Collecting
possessions? Trying to be beautiful? I'm not exaggerating
check for yourselves, then you'll see. Through thorough examination
you can realize that if your entire life is dedicated to seeking
happiness through things like chocolate and ice cream, there
is no significance in your being born human. Birds and dogs
have the same kind of attitude to life. If you think you're
intelligent you should dedicate your life to goals higher
than those of chickens!
I'm not deciding
your life for you, but you check up. It's much better to
have
an integrated life than to live in mental disorder. Otherwise
your life is not worthwhile, not beneficial to yourself or
others. Ask yourself what you are living forfor chocolate?
For steak? Perhaps for education. But that also comes from
the mind. Without the mind, what is education, what is philosophy?
A philosophy is somebody's way of thinking, thoughts put
together
in a certain way. Without the mind there's no philosophy
no
doctrine, no university subjects. These things are mind-made.
How to check the
mind? Just watch how your mind perceives or interprets any
object that it contacts; what feelingcomfortable or
uncomfortablearises. Then you check: When I perceive
this kind of view, this feeling arises; that emotion comes;
I discriminate in such a way. Why, This is how to check the
mind; that's all; it's very simple.
When you have checked
your own mind properly you stop blaming others; you recognize
that actions come from your own defiled, deluded mind. When
you are preoccupied with material, external objects, you always
blame them and others for your problems. Then you become miserable
because you project that view onto external phenomena instead
of seeing their reality. So you can realize your fade-conception
viewthe attitude, or nature, of your own mind.
You might think that
this is all very new for you, but it's not. Whenever you are
going to do anything, first you check whether to do it or
not and then make your decision. Since you do this already,
I'm not giving you something new; the difference is that you
are not doing it enough. You have to do more checking. To
do this you don't have to sit in some corner on your ownyou
can be checking your mind all the time, even while talking
or working with other people. Also, you shouldn't think that
examining the mind is something only for those who are on
an Eastern trip. Don't think that way.
You should also realize
that the nature of the mind is different from that of the
mesh and bone of this physical body. The mind is like a mirror,
reflecting everything without discrimination. If you have
understanding-wisdom you will control the sort of reflections
you allow in your mind-mirror. If you totally ignore what
is happening in your mind, it will reflect all kinds of garbagethings
that make you psychologically ill.
Your checking-wisdom
should distinguish between reflections that are beneficial
and those that bring psychological problems. Eventually, when
you realize the nature of subject and object, all your problems
will dissolve.
Some people think
they are religious, but what is religious? If you are not
examining your own nature, not gaining knowledge-wisdom, in
what way are you religious? Just the idea that you are religiousI
am Buddhist, Jewishdoes not help at all. It does not
help you; it does not help others. If you have knowledge-wisdom,
you can really help others.
The greatest problems
of humanity are psychological, not material. From birth to
death, people are continuously under the control of their
mental sufferings. Some people never keep watch on their minds
when things are going well, but when something goes wrongan
accident or some other terrible experiencethey immediately
say, God, please help me. They call themselves religious but
they're just joking. In happiness or sorrow, a serious practitioner
maintains constant awareness of God and their own nature.
You're not being realistic or even remotely religious if you
forget yourself when you are having a good time, surrounded
by chocolate and preoccupied by worldly sense pleasures, and
turn to God only when something awful happens. That doesn't
help.
No matter which of the many world religions we consider,
their interpretation of God or Buddha or whatever is simply
words and mind; only these two. Therefore words don't matter
so much. What you have to realize is that everythinggood
and bad; all kinds of philosophies and doctrinescomes
from mind. The mind is very powerful; therefore it requires
strong direction. A powerful jet plane needs a good pilot;
your mind-pilot should be wisdom understanding the nature
of the mind. Then powerful energy can directed to benefit
your life instead of being allowed to run uncontrollably like
a mad elephant, destroying yourself and others.
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